first off happy new to yall.
now in this q, 2 cm = 20 mm is a comparable distance to the radii of the given spheres (25%). so ideally when we equate potential at surface, we should write (Q = charge on A after eqbm, Q' = charge on B after eqbm):
kQ/5 + kQ'/15 = kQ/10 + kQ'/10 which gives Q = Q'/3
(i.e account for mutual potential)
however when u solve this no option matches. when i checked eduniti he said we can ignore this distance. when u solve that u get Q = Q'/2 (drastic difference)
i take <5% or <10% a measure for approxmation. so my doubt is when do i safely approximate and when do i dont.