Relationship vent

[neat trellis]

So lately I've been fluctuating between disgustingly loving my boyfriend and not really really thinking of him at all, and I feel so back because of it because he treats me so amazingly and doesn't judge me at all, sends me good morning/goodnight texts every morning and reminds me that he loves me and that I'm beautiful every day, is it normal to feel this way, I feel so bad! I really like him and don't want him to leave :(

[alpine zenith]

Ok so I just need to ask before I give advice, what do you identify as?

[spare ferry]

their pronouns page says xe/xim

[hollow barn]

Hmm have your heard of the aroace spectrum? You might fall within there. Specifically grey romantic and abrosexual. I think..

[neat trellis]

Im genderflux, rn I feel more feminine so like She/they I guess?

[neat trellis]

I haven't, I'll look Into it, thanks!

Okay I've been reading into it and I thing I might be Aceflux but I'm not 100% sure yet and I still need to do more research

Looks like the lesbian flag kinda ^w^

[brittle bramble]

I'd say talk to your bf about it. The best way through this sort of thing is to talk it out. Maybe he's perfectly fine with the way you act and you're just overthinking it? Or maybe it does concern him, and learning/knowing that you're aceflux or the like will help reassure him that you're not cheating on him or disinterested in him.

Are you in a committed/monogamous relationship, or open/poly/etc?