I need help but I dont want it. | Pridecord | Page 1

winter trout May 1, 2026, 5:36 AM

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TW: SELF HARM

My partner has been in a really bad place recently, they cut themselves even attemped a few times back in December and January, and I'm talking to them and they mentioned a medical appointment soon and we were talking and it might get them sent to the Phych ward.
That just stresses me out from what I heard and my provinces resources for our mental care has kinda gone to shit.

We keep talking about like how I can help, Provincal resources, and.. idfk man, they are talking about it and I am trying to help them see that not only I would miss them but all of our friends would too and their family.
I'm lost at this rate and its causing mental stress on me, I love them and they love me too but I just dont know what to do.

dim tendon May 1, 2026, 6:34 AM

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winter trout TW: SELF HARM My partner has been in a really bad place recently, they cut them...

Try online therapy and make sure they get the ||cuts|| checked out by a doctor

sweet heron May 1, 2026, 9:46 PM

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If they do end up getting sent to the psych ward, be sure to be there for them and help advocate for them. It sounds like you're maybe in Canada, and I'm in the US so it might be a bit different... but generally, having an advocate "on the outside" can do wonders for minimizing the term of stay.

#I need help but I dont want it.