#Should i come out

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eager totem
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Ping if respond or else I wont see

marble haven
# eager totem Ping if respond or else I wont see

If you're not safe I say don't do it. Coming out is a different experience for everyone.. As for the changing your mind thing.. Peoples understanding of themselves changes. I used to think I was bigender but now I'm trans. I think if you're really wanting to be yourself then go for it as long as you're still able to live a normal-ish life.

eager totem
marble haven
# eager totem im also just kinda worried if im too young to know

Knowing changes all the time but I believe that your never too young to know yourself. Even toddlers have opinions and just because sexuality is different doesn't mean it still isn't something you know. Knowledge changes throughout life and so does opinions. I'm still young myself but I know that I'm trans. I say give it a go (again only if you're safe though)

eager totem
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Like im not gonna get beat up or any shit like that

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But i dont wanna be hated by people

marble haven
# eager totem But i dont wanna be hated by people

I understand that. There will always be someone who hates on someone for not reason other then them being themselves.. I'm not sure how it works myself. I'm mainly out to friends and close family since I do online school. But I can say that haters aren't saying the truth. There's nothing wrong with being trans. You're still a person who's talented and loved

eager totem
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Im not worried that much about what other people think

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im just worried about nobody talking to me

marble haven
# eager totem im just worried about nobody talking to me

Well.. there's not much advice o can give on this but know that if you do come out. I'm sure they'll be at least one person who will want to talk to you and be your friend. There is always someone willing to be friends with your genuine self. You may not find them at first but maybe you will. I hope you do. Idk what else to say sorry. I'm not that good at advice :/

eager totem
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Ik most of my friends are homophobic/transphobic

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Like

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they arent great friends but moreso the people i talk to

marble haven
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I'm sure there's better advice out there but I really do hope you'll still be okay and happy wether you come out or not

eager totem
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ill ask again another day and see if anyone else has advice