winged coral
So Im fabein and I'm biologically a girl but identify as a guy and my friends respect that and most of them are either non binary or just go by the opposite gender and I'm pan-sexual as well I like both and my parents don't mind my being gay and stuff but they hate trans people they are very transphobic and they believe the everyone like that is a disgrace and a mistake and I don't know how they'd react, would they hit me, yell at me, hate me, etc? I don't think they'll accept that I'm trans if they don't what do I do?! Do I tell them and be called a mistake and be treated like shit? or do I not tell them and be holding it in and hating them dead naming me and misgendering me? ⁉️
#I'm pan and transgender
devout topaz
I would just not tell them if I was you, and just wait till you no longer need them for support to come out
dim gorge
First of all, sending all positivity your way, your situation can not be easy to deal with.
Secondly, have you tried discussing with your parents why they are so against trans people? I am curious if it could be lack of knowledge? Hinted that you support trans people, to guage their reaction? Just to like test the waters.
I 100% understand your fear, and I don't want to say "do this or that"
As to how they will react, impossible to tell without knowing them, maybe they would be more accepting if it was their own child, when it is more of a reality for them. That is a big if of course, wish you all the best