#I like a trans boy and I need help.

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wraith charm
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I was in the middle of class when somebody came out as trans to me and I had a crush on them before they came out and I still do. Am I bi? This might be different because I am from the netherrealm also known as the underworld in your plane. 👹

quick crow
wraith charm
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I grew up kinda conservative so maybe it I just my brain doesn't really realize he is trans but I don't know why I would have a hard time because one of my best friends is trans.

sudden tapir
lusty silo
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Sexuality can be fluid and labels like bi, straight, gay, etc. are not 100% definitive and everyone experiences it differently regardless of what they label themselves. No need to rush to find a label.

wraith charm
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I don't care about finding a label. I just care about if my love part of my brain actually even takes in that he is trans.

lusty silo
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you could consider journaling how you feel towards him and see if it shifts over time as he transitions (if he does)

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some trans people don't transition right away or even at all

lusty silo
wraith charm
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I might but for some reason journaling doesn't help me.

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I like a trans boy and I need help.

quick crow
# wraith charm I might but for some reason journaling doesn't help me.

Yeah journaling doesn't help me either
Hm maybe wait until he actually transitions and see?

If you can use his correct pronouns and can register him as his correct gender in your head then you probably do internally understand he's trans and are bi.
If you don't then you'll probably have to wait for his transition for it to register and you to stop liking him, until which you would just have to wait and try to change the gender you hold him as internally

If you want you can tell him about this and see how it goes (ik that would require confessing and you don't have to do that if you didn't feel like it)