#I like a trans boy and I need help.
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Yeah maybe
Or honestly you don't have to label yourself with that if you don't want to, straight with one exception is still pretty much straight (someone please correct me if I'm wrong about this)
I'm thinking Gynosexual but that doesn't feel that me.
I grew up kinda conservative so maybe it I just my brain doesn't really realize he is trans but I don't know why I would have a hard time because one of my best friends is trans.
As of right now, I believe that only time will tell. (But yeah sounds probably bisexual to me)
also you could be attracted to this person based on their personality/other traits, not their gender or appearance.
Sexuality can be fluid and labels like bi, straight, gay, etc. are not 100% definitive and everyone experiences it differently regardless of what they label themselves. No need to rush to find a label.
I don't care about finding a label. I just care about if my love part of my brain actually even takes in that he is trans.
you could consider journaling how you feel towards him and see if it shifts over time as he transitions (if he does)
some trans people don't transition right away or even at all
I wish I journaled my feelings before I was out and still trying to figure out my sexuality.
I might but for some reason journaling doesn't help me.
I like a trans boy and I need help.
Yeah journaling doesn't help me either
Hm maybe wait until he actually transitions and see?
If you can use his correct pronouns and can register him as his correct gender in your head then you probably do internally understand he's trans and are bi.
If you don't then you'll probably have to wait for his transition for it to register and you to stop liking him, until which you would just have to wait and try to change the gender you hold him as internally
If you want you can tell him about this and see how it goes (ik that would require confessing and you don't have to do that if you didn't feel like it)