#Yeah i'm not coming out

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inner plank
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Hey, if you know they won't accept you then it's probably better that you don't come out to them.
Please make sure that they will be fully supportive of you, because if they're not then being out will be worse than just hiding it

pliant geyser
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Agree with Kia. I'm in a religious family, and the way i tested it was just asking my mom. She said she didn't think it was how it was supposed to be. So i havn't told her im pan/bi idk yet (TWINS). what im saying is, just ask. their reaction will be enough. If they don't support, for your safety, PLEASE DO NOT TELL THEM.

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cuz i woulda been sent to a conversion camp or smth

misty sparrow
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"Remember, you need to understand that not all religious people are judgmental, pesky, or intolerant. Some of them are compassionate, calm, or empathetic, whereas the others are being jerks sometimes. Your fear of rejection is the one that prevented you from realizing that religious people have different behaviors and personalities, depending on the circumstances.

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"Oh yeah, make sure to face your fear of rejection by deciding to question your religious family: "What are your thoughts about pansexuality and asexuality? And does your divine creator truly love everyone regardless of their gender, sexuality, body? Is it morally good or bad to accept pansexuality and asexuality? If you believe it is morally good or bad, then show me your conclusive proof right now.

misty sparrow
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"I noticed you were offline yesterday. Yep, just to remind you that questioning religious family many times will reveal their true motives, intentions, expectations and beliefs as well. You have to find a way to make them realize how ignorant they were."