#Defeat

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worthy anchor
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I’ll never have my crush again. Background Info me and my crush met through a community of a game we both play. Recently we played a round and we both got out and it was the final 2, and his friend was in it, and he wanted me to vote them. I didnt bc i was petty & jealous, and he blocked me. So i vent to my “friend” about it until I found out its apparently his alt, and here we are.

astral bane
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Hey… I get why you’re upset, that situation sounds really messy 😔
But honestly, this might be a moment to reflect a bit too.

Acting out of jealousy or pettiness can hurt people, even if it felt small at the time. From his perspective, it might’ve felt like you didn’t respect him or his friend, which could be why he reacted strongly.

At the same time, blocking you and especially the whole “alt account pretending to be your friend” thing isn’t exactly healthy behavior either. That’s a breach of trust.

Maybe instead of focusing on “I’ll never have my crush again,” try to see this as a learning moment—for both of you. If there’s still a way to communicate calmly and honestly, you could try apologizing sincerely, without expecting anything back.

And if things don’t work out, it doesn’t mean you lost everything—it just means that connection wasn’t built on the right foundation yet.