Okay so like I love them a lot and I know they love me too but they just always start venting in the middle of nice convos without asking about the exact same things I’ve already given them advice for and everytime I just have to send the exact same responses and everytime it just DRAINS me but I don’t wanna break up with them cause I do love them but they don’t even listen to boundaries I’ve set either most people I talk to abt this stuff tell me they’re a red flag or smth cus they’ve tried getting me to join and a cult with them but like they haven’t talked about it in a while so I think it’s okay? They also like flirting with an alt acc of theirs in a general chat which they know im uncomfortable with but im not THAT uncomfortable with it . But genuinely they vent to me sometimes 5 times a day without asking and it just makes me sad and drained. Any advice for this I doubt they’ll listen to me talking to them about it cause they do forget my boundaries a lot, I hate conflict and we recently got into a small conflict about them venting like this cause im a head admin of the server they do this in. But genuinely I do need advice
#I feel like my partner is draining me
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velvet olive
Ok first up I would say that it’s kinda messed up that their flirting with other people then u in an alt account
And also I feel like if their ranting to u 5 times a day and not taking ur advice abt stuff then their kinda ignoring it
And I know u really love them but maybe u should try talking to them
About all of this