I’m f’ing terrified lol

[true badger]

I need help coming out I’m pansexual and I’m scared that if I tell the wrong person news will get out and I will get flamed at school Beacuse almost everyone there is homophobic ( not everyone but yk what I mean ) but I can’t keep it in much longer I’m also a furry and no one at my school likes furrys so ima keep that one away lol.

Yea so basically I just need advice.

Thnx. :3

[marsh quest]

make sure the people you come out to would support you before you come out to them

[noble steeple]

You don’t have to tell anyone

[fathom orchid]

Instead of simply coming out to people that you deem close try to actually find out how they would go about knowing that you're pan.
Look for how they talk about rumors or other people's secrets, try to find out if they respect pronouns (even though you're not it's still a good way to check how respectful they are).

If they seem like they would tell them simply don't come out to them, it's not mandatory to tell people.

[livid tangle]

Do correct me if I'm wrong but being pan means you date for personality not genders so in my opinion if you know someone is an ally I would tell them the truth but if someone asks you who you know definitely would be against you and who you are I'd tell them you like men/women depending on what they think is 'normal' so for example if a boy came up to me and I was pan and I knew he would be rude about it I would tell him I like boys because after all its not a lie because gender doesn't bother you and it gives you that time to feel comfortable being yourself and to ignore those people who think it's wrong

[true badger]

You are correct, and thank you.