I recently came out to a friend and he hasn’t replied did i do smth wrong.

[coral flint]

So i recently came out to a friend who himself has a trans friend so i was comfortable to ask him to call me jane and he was ok with it and so i came out to another friend who is chill with my gender and i asked him to call me jane instead of what is now my deadname and he hasn’t said a thing and im scared that he might not want to know me as a friend anymore

[sharp swan]

Did you tell him over text, and how long ago did you tell him?

[coral flint]

Yea i told him over text and it was over 3 hours before i posted this

[sharp swan]

Yeah that is a while but there’s still a chance maybe he still hasn’t seen it unless you know otherwise

[coral flint]

Yea he is fine with it so all is well

[sharp swan]

Nice!

[coral flint]

But he aint using my name or pronouns

[rancid dawn]

Oh, have you tried talking to him or reminding him about it? Or if you'd like to be passive aggressive just correct him every time

[coral flint]

I have expressed how it makes me feel when he doesn’t use my name/pronouns but im tired so ill probs either ignore him until he gets it right or just correct him

[rancid dawn]

Yeah that's probably your best bet, and if not drop him

[coral flint]

That would be the best idea if he does not but he. Is a good person except for when people choose pronouns/names

[rancid dawn]

Okay
Even though he may be a good person he is still choosing not to respect you and who you are, though i do understand not wanting to drop friends for that.
I'd suggest doing what you said (ignoring or correcting, talk about it again), and see how it goes.

[coral flint]

K

[coral flint]

My spineless ass has done nothing

[coral flint]

He started calling me jane yesterday