can i be bisexual and aroace and have gf at the same time?

[wicked rampart]

my identitiy isnt fixed sometimes it changes but idk who i am, sometimes i dont feel romatic, sometimes i do, but not all the time i feel heavy romantic

[vital island]

You can be both, and you might wanna check out the term abrosexual/abroromantic

[tidal vigil]

you can be/have all of those things at the same time! of course! and its totally normal for your identity to feel fluid, i get it. what youre describing right now seems like you might be aroflux! but please take your time figuring out. 🌺

[wicked rampart]

tysm!!!

i have another question

im boy im dating a girl and im bi am i technacly straight?

cisgender male

cis female

[tidal vigil]

if youre attracted to women and men/more than just women, then that means (in this case) youre bisexual. just because youre in a straight relationship doesnt always mean youre straight. there are many multisexual people that are in straight relationships, but arent straight.

[wicked rampart]

Okiee!!!

[mystic glade]

There’s also aroacespike or spikerose “sexual and romantic orientation on the aroace spectrum where an individual usually feels no romantic or sexual attraction, but occasionally experiences rare, sudden, and intense "spikes" of attraction for a short time before returning to their typical state.” And you can be both, For example I’m arospike and bi

[jolly quest]

Aroace is a spectrum, and bi is your sexual/romantic attraction to both genders so, YES, you can be bi, aroace and be in a relationship

[wicked rampart]

Okayy!!!