I'm still in shock because my boyfriend almost killed himself on Tuesday. He disappears and comes back, disappears and comes back, and I'm trying to be as present for him as possible, Even if he doesn't answer me, I always say good morning/afternoon/evening, and I always affirm and reaffirm that I love him more than anything It's difficult to be 100% present because I work and study, and he's from another state. I'm just afraid something bad might happen; I would cry terribly if something bad did.
#My boyfriend almost killed himself and I'm in shock.
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Hey, from someone that was in the same situation of your boyfriend, tell him how much it means to you. If you are hurting from it you need to say it ( gently ). Tell him ''hey, i know it's hard for you and it's hard for me too cause i love you very much and im scared of losing you. Im here to support you, but im not a professional and i cant be here all the time. Do you think we can search together something or someone that will help you?'' ( it's a exemple) you cant being responsible for your boyfriend's life, even if you love him. Support him, try to help him getting better. But PLEASE, take care of yourself too.
Thank you. I spoke with him on Wednesday, I talked about seeking help, I listened to him, I was what he needed me to be, but since yesterday at 9:39 PM I haven't heard from him anymore. He only said goodbye and nothing more That's what worries me because I wish I could be near him to help him, and I also sought help for myself (CVV in Brazil) and well, it didn't help much. I just hope he's okay, And thank you so much!