I have a problem, When most of my friends vent to me I don't know what to say to make them feel at least a little better, for example, my boyfriend told me about a nightmare that he had that affected him greatly, I tried to suggest things but I don't think it helped. He seems a little more distant now. I feel extremely useless when it comes to comforting people because of things like that. I feel as though I should give him time to be alone, though than again I feel as though that's a bad idea, another thing is I feel disposable, like I could just be replaced, hell I've had it happen twice. I feel like if I mess up once I'll lose him and everything.
I just really needed to talk about this.
#I feel Useless
hazy wing
quasi charm
A game changer: Ask them, what do you need. Space? An open ear? Cuddels? Something other?
hazy wing
A game changer: Ask them, what do you need. Space? An open ear? Cuddels? Somethi...
I dunno, I've tried asking him, but like, he doesn't respond much when I'm in VC with him, and I can't cuddle him because he's not in the same state as me, though I really wish I could.