#Im scared

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crisp nebula
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Oh.

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uhm i can't finish it the characters are too long

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im sorry i dont know what's triggering the auto mod..

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im sorry

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I'll just send a brief summary

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Oh ive found whats causing it i think...

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um ill try to rephrase it im sorry fir the automod stuff if its weird

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Ill jus delete the summary if it works since it literally is just repeatingwhat ive said

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uhm please tell me if the hyper thing is allowed ill try to change it up if i fan ill do my besy....

modest ferry
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Actually, I kinda understand you. I've had difficulty saying no to that sorta thing with my partner, even though I typically don't truly want it, being ace, but I've talked to them about it and we'll both try to do better. Anyway, while I'm not sure exactly what to say, what I can say is, just know it isn't actually wrong to say no and get away from situations they may put you in, and if it hurts their feelings, then it's something they need to work through, not a problem with you. If they're a true friend, they'll respect your boundaries and at least try to work through their problems. I known it's hard. Believe me, I know, but, in the end, it'll be best to stand your ground. If you need to talk more, I'm open, and if you want to talk in DMs, I'm also open with that

modest ferry
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Take your time. These things can be hard, but also remember that the longer you take, the longer it will go on. Also, always remember: there are so many other ways to interact and give attention, it doesn't have to be this specific way. I believe you can find those other ways and make a plan. Anyway, other than that, I'm glad I could help with my previous comment and I wish you the best

crisp nebula
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Maybe ill take this down in a bit

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brief contact with the bestie but seems like a bad time

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and i dont think ill keep trying

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I've had enough of the panic attacks related to connections and i feel like ive outlived my usefulness for them maybe that's enough

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Still this has really helped.