IM TRANS AND IDK HOW TO COME OUT

[gilded iron]

guys pls help me find the right time and space to tell my parents I wanna be trans or some sort of advice ty <3

I’m cooked

[stuck grail]

Well first, let's start with addressing basic things. how do you feel your parents would react?

[stuck grail]

And are they supportive or against lgbtq related topics, or are they neutral

[gilded iron]

Hm

I think they would honestly be fine but won’t support it

It’s more like a neutral thing

[gilded iron]

Mom: Neutral
Dad: Unknown

But from what I’ve heard my dad shows some sort of hatred toward lgbtq people

[stuck grail]

My advice would be to wait a little while until you're completely comfortable and practice what you'll say

First I'd suggest telling your mom first once you have it all sorted out first and see how she takes it. If she takes it well, tell her not to tell your dad or anyone else because you want the floor to be yours whenever you're confessing this sort of thing.

And if you don't know when the right time to confess to your father will be, ask your mother for advice on when and how you should do it

Mothers know best after all

Or at least that's what they say

[stuck grail]

As long as they aren't treating you wrong or any differently, I'd say you're in a safe boat and environment. It'll just take time, patience, and encouragement before you confess to them.

Btw this is my first time trying to give advice to help someone with coming out so if it isn't great, I apologize

I'm trying and helping people is my passion lol

[gilded iron]

It’s okay

[stuck grail]

Have you thought about what you'll tell your parents?

[gilded iron]

Yeah

[stuck grail]

Any other concerns?

[gilded iron]

Nah I think I’ll be fine thanks