robust prairie
Exactly as the title says, but considering i come from a hyper conservative environment i really don't know a single person who wouldn't immediately start screaming at me if i did tell them i was transfem
ive thought about calling a support hotline (already few and far between) and just telling the person there but i'd really much prefer coming out someone that ive already known for a while....... so yeahb
kind linden
I understand what that's like. Especially people nowadays are unpredictable with lgbtq members. It's hard trying to be accepted by people.
robust prairie
yeah.... my parents are especially an enigma... they won't bat an eye to like the one other queer person me and they know but when it comes to me they get weirded out by me literally using anything vaguely colored pink because ooooh female colour oooh and theyre really paranoid about me
its so stupid
kind linden
Ikr. I like to look at Tyler the creator albums and get some of the colors the same as my braces. I'm scared to try and do Igor because it's pink and my mom thinks some colors are gay/for girls. It's infuriating because I really have been wanting to do Igor.
robust prairie
its really stupid to associate any kind of colour with a specific gender honestly like let people wear what they want to wear.......
regardless im kind of sick of the general stereotypes that alienate people that society deems weird considering how easily people believe in negative connotation a and negative connotation b and it makes it really hard to come out if everyone thinks that way
kind linden
It's like everyone is the same person that thinks the same way just so they can fit in. Like they don't know how to be different and be proud of it.
And when they do find someone being different and that they're happy about it, they all just gang up on them and pick on them just to feel higher about themselves
robust prairie
yeah... its honestly really unfortunate......