I always used to be that type of person to help everyone. Whether it was about some sort of tasks, emotional support, anything. However for some reason I always feel like since I’m the one that helps everyone – I often think “meh, I can deal with it myself” when it comes to my issues. The reason also is because whenever I would be vulnerable emotionally, people would say “stop crying.” or “you’re a man, you’re not supposed to be vulnerable.” (It’s always been like that since I was a kid until now). Because of this I always felt emotionally blocked, now yes I would try to reach out for people I’m friends with, but most of the time after talking, nothing really changed. Which made me more insecure about whether I should really reach out (even if it doesn’t change anything) or not.
#I wish I could have actual friends to hang out with or talk to
upbeat beacon
winter zodiac
Not sure if this helps, but don't listen to people who tell you you shouldn't cry. I believe everyone is allowed to and even should cry, even men. And, as a quote from a show I love says "reliable people need someone to rely on too", so even if you're the one who helps most of the time, you should remember that it's okay to lean on someone else. I'm here if you need me, and I promise I won't judge you for crying
upbeat beacon
Not sure if this helps, but don't listen to people who tell you you shouldn't cr...
I’ll keep that in mind, thank you
winter zodiac
I’ll keep that in mind, thank you
Any time. I wish you the best
arctic urchin
I always used to be that type of person to help everyone. Whether it was about s...
99% of the people whom say that don't get enough sleep, scientifically lack of sleep does do this to a person. U prob should get some sleep bro i dont want u to get hurt.
upbeat beacon
99% of the people whom say that don't get enough sleep, scientifically lack of s...
I sleep enough as a matter of fact
arctic urchin
I sleep enough as a matter of fact
time?
cuz having enough sleep and sleeping at the right time are differenet