#I don't know how to come out and I'm scared...

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nocturne cedar
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I've been very tempted to come out to my family about being Pansexual and Genderfluid but I'm scared of what the reaction will be, It's an army family so the opinions on stuff like pride is very mixed...

I've felt like this since I was 11, I'm currently 16 and I've told friends but I don't know how to tell the family the truth.

dark mason
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Often, family can be quite understanding unless they are very strict with what they see as acceptable. You could try to slowly bring up the topic, not necessarily mentioning yourself at the beginning... kinda like testing the waters, and if you feel like telling them feels okay, it's easier. You could talk with one of them first if it feels easier. Also, remember that some people need time to process the topic. I hope you find a way that makes it easy to open up with them.