SO, i really want to tell my dad i have a bf, we'll call my bf S. My parents know abt S, they were my BEST FRIEND!! and when he came out as trans, identifying as she/her, they did NOT like it, especally my dad, hated it. my dad is controversal asf, he supports ice, trump, hates lgbtq. but when i told them that S isnt trans anymore because they didnt feel comfortable, which was TRUE, MY DAD DIDNT BELEIVE ME!! and S was bi at the time, which i told them, and my dad said "you cant talk to them outside of school bc theyre bad and will make you ||SH|| bc theyre fucked up for being that way" even tho they already know im demigirl and pan, im still scared to tell my dad im dating him. my mom knows, but my dad just doesnt beleive me when i said he wasnt trans anymore. and idk if he'll accept me dating him. but on the bright side, he might be happybc im dating a boy and not a girl, which ive dated a lot of girls, so he might be happy im dating a boy... but should i tell him??? im meeting up with him on a school trip AND hes going to ship me things shipping them to my DADS WORKPLACE, so hed find out eventually right??? i might tell him on the event day... but im scared... also, im not supposed to talk to him outside of school, hed question how he knows his workplace. he doesnt know i have discord, ever since something that happened before, im not supposed to have it, they didnt know i could get it on my school computer. and im scared, because ik hed check all my stuff if he found out... should i tell him or not??
#i really want to tell them... but im really scared...tw: SH
rocky patrol
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First off, fuck Trump. And no you shouldn't your dad will get rid of your stuff and im assuming you dont want that to happen. And he shouldn't be able to anyways since your a teen (im assuming sorry if i get it wrong) and you deserve some privacy at least. Your dad is so stupid and it mainly depends on how you feel. Is it safe? Or no? Well whatever your answer is i cant influence you, so its mainly your call. I hope whatever option goes on, you and S can stick together.
rocky patrol
First off, fuck Trump. And no you shouldn't your dad will get rid of your stuff ...
TW!!! MENTION OF SH well, my family is christian, which i made a whole nother rant abt but idk if im gonna put it here bc it lwky feels annoying to do that- BUT ANYWAYS, im not SURE if its safe. the worst would be them taking my school computer unless its for school, more questions, probably a whole weeks worth of yelling, screaming, crying and A LOT of ||sh|| possibly ||getting sent to a mental ward|| but if it goes well, i would get praised for dating a boy, still a lot of questions, theyd go through my computer, always listen to my convos, and probably be on my ahh all day-
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Well, whatever feels say for you, I'll support. Its your life