#I am not okay.

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burnt hill
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My friends are ghosting me and ignoring me, I struggle with making friends so idk if I'll ever have friends again.. idk what to do.

cinder elm
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Go up and say high to random people. You'd be surpised at how open a lot of people are. You can also ask your friends why they haven't responded. Always feel free to ask questions. Keep going!

burnt hill
cinder elm
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I used my emotions to drive me out of my worst place.

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This doesn't work for everyone tho...

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Why are people scary? This is a normal thing to feel. I feel it myself sometimes. You don't need to be ashamed.

burnt hill
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Just got textef this by Leo.

Annoying as hevk always thinking you're sooooo cool well you're not I'm not happy about your actions and you don't even apologize for it, you can't say sorry and all you do is ignore other people. Don't sit with us tomorrow and don't talk to us. With Daniella? Idc do what you want. But don't you even dare try to talk to me again because honestly you're a pain in my ass trying to prove your worth or updating your status 24/7 just genuinely shut up and improve you lazy flavored air breathing fucking bitch

cinder elm
# burnt hill Just got textef this by Leo. Annoying as hevk always thinking you're sooooo coo...

Ditch the people who don't care about you. If you spend your energy on them, you can't spend it on yourself. You have a lot of work to do on yourself. That's not a bad thing, it's just a fact. I'm still working on myself, even at 19. And it will continue for the rest of my life. Go up and talk to people. Make mistakes. There will be people who don't like you, and that's fine. We all have people who don't like us. Those uncomfortable interactions are how we learn. So we have to find the people who do like us.

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Mistakes are normal. So go make some <3

fast venture
# burnt hill Just got textef this by Leo. Annoying as hevk always thinking you're sooooo coo...

what did you do to make this leo so upset? what actions? /genq /nfta
also i reaaallly relate to you. i have severe social anxiety so :p BUT, but, i promise you, you will find your people soon. there are people like you that will want to be friends with you :> OR a lot of introverts or people with social anxiety a lot of the time joke "oh i got adopted by an extrovert" and it is actually a thing for a lot of people, like for example my bestie, he talks a lot, is funny, social, all that and i love hanging with him for those reasons!! because i can really just listen to him talk and laugh with him :> but please, if someone doesnt respect you, you dont have to return it, and you shouldnt waste your time on those people. its only going to make your feelings and everything worse. sometimes its hard to get over friends, but it just takes time. i promise things get better with time, and remember to take care of YOURSELF. gift yourself things, spend time with yourself. as a socially anxious introvert i LOOOVE spending time by myself, though sometimes i do need my social time. it is good for you to interact and talk even a little with people. and, i know it sounds scary, but social clubs might be an interest for you :] just a general one, or one that is targeted towards one of your interests, or you could just go out to places that you like and enjoy with things that you like and enjoy and you may meet someone at those places that likes the same things you do! the internet is also kind of a great place to meet people and try to interact with people more, find friends, face your fear, stuff like that. SO, do not worry about if youre going to make any more friends, think positively, on the bright side of things. like, it might take a little (OR NOT EVEN THAT MUCH!!) time to find friends that actually like and respect me for me, but with this time that i have right now, i can take care of myself, explore my interests, focus on school/work, and have fun. youll totally get friends along the way though.

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omg i just yapped so hard