i seriously need help

[rugged marsh]

I came out as trans (mtf) and lesbian to my friend who's Christian, and he's not very happy about it. idk what to do because ive been friends with him for like 4 years and he's a really good friend but everything changed now that he knows. What should I do??

[knotty anvil]

i mean personally if he doesn't care about and support all of you then he's not worth it but that's just me

[keen fjord]

Tell him that its still you. You haven't changed your friendship or anything. You got this

[winter granite]

See if y’all can make it work or if he’s willing to listen to you on your problems or talks related to trans stuff.
If he’s being a dick about it,cut him off I know it’s not easy but it’s still the best outcome speaking from experience.

[rugged marsh]

he said that being trans is wrong because "God made you one gender and one gender only", which is dumb because he doesn't say what goes when it comes to me

[keen fjord]

That is so dumb we have freedom to express ourselves why cant we?

[rugged marsh]

i know he's my friend, but that doesn't mean I can't express who I wanna be

[winter granite]

Ye cut him off asap,it’s fine if he believes that personally (I still think it’s stupid but if there’s opinion because of religion and they don’t act like a dick or discriminatory it’s morally fine) but the problem is you aren’t Christian I’m assuming?he’s not allowed to tell you things like that

[rugged marsh]

no, im not Christian

no one in my family is Christian

[winter granite]

Does your family know?

[rugged marsh]

yup

[winter granite]

Then yeah

It’s his problem

Cut him out asap,it will hurt but he won’t listen unless a Christian adult tells him to quit it and it will help in the long run before he says something to hurtful to you

[rugged marsh]

he's 17 tho

he's older than me

and he's a huge dick about the fact I'm trans

[keen fjord]

What a bitch that guy is

[rugged marsh]

exactly

[winter granite]

That’s the definition of being a bitch imagine bullying someone that younger than you for being trans

[keen fjord]

I mean, I dont know, but I feel Trans sometimes I dont know, but im real sensitive about the topic when someone bullies me about it

[rugged marsh]

that's my fucking point

[winter granite]

I saw that

But don’t worry I get it I won’t judge you I get it,I’d feel the same way like yoy yoy aren’t weird for that.

Honestlh if the bullying continues tell your parents and if you live in a non transphobic country hopefully they can face charges for it

[rugged marsh]

i live in the US

[winter granite]

Oh fuck

What state tho cause depending on that the results could change

[rugged marsh]

florida

he lives in nyc

[winter granite]

Is he an online friend cause like how does he bully/interact with you?

@rugged marsh

[rugged marsh]

I met him in Delaware before I moved to Florida

Discord is how we communicate

[rugged marsh]

I met him irl but now we communicate through discord

[winter granite]

Just block him in discord ngl

I know it’s hard but I think it’ll be worse if you keep him added

[rugged marsh]

ill try, I guess

i blocked him and banned him from my server @winter granite

[winter granite]

Nice mate,hopefully he minds his own business and just fucks off.

[rugged marsh]

i hope so too :))

[winter granite]

Thoihht if you need more people who understand you pretty sure in Florida there are lgbt youth centers that can help you find more people for you to connect with so you won’t be alone

I’d recommend irl over online cause irl it’s mostly better to have connections like this

[rugged marsh]

thanks so much!! ^_^

[winter granite]

Np mate,have a great day!

[rugged marsh]

its nighttime for me

[winter granite]

Ahi shit mb

Have a great night

[rugged marsh]

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