#I'm canceled in weather community but... I barely did anything wrong

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knotty mica
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Hey I'll explain if anyone cares but I'm really panicked right now everyone is canceling and I'm being framed

knotty mica
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PLEASE

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DOES SOMEONE CARE PLEASE MY OWN BEST FRIEND DOESNT EVEN BELIEVE ME

neat moth
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Sorry, but I dont understand. I care but what is the weather community?

knotty mica
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Oh my god am I freaking out

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Ok so this will be from the perspective of my friend Haywood

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So Harth was in ARHT's server when he got jealous of someone and said shut up once, keep this in mind. They proceeded to ragebait Harth shown in one of the photos and Harth being Harth got pissed. It then escalated when everyone came at them for being reasonably angry after getting ragebaited while being a bit frustrated. Harth eventually separated themselves for 4 minutes to go do something else before getting a notification that he was muted for 3 hours despite distancing himself which is rare for Harth to do. Harth went to ARHT's dms pissed, and ARHT had responses that reminded him of everyone at the school he used to go to where he was constantly abused. Because of this he felt like he wanted to kll himself and accidentially guilt tripped due to being an open and honest person. ARHT then extended it to 6 hours. Harth got even more confused and pissed before he was eventually kicked and couldn't appeal. ARHT then accused him of sicide baiting when he genuinely wasn't, he was getting terrible memories which gave him suicidal thoughts. Harth felt really sorry all of the sudden and started to apologize but as he was ARHT blocked him and banned him from his server. Harth started crying uncontrollably and came to me. Harth was once again made the antagonist while for the most part being the victim. ARHT then accused Harth of spamming dms which is untrue. Harth repeatedly asked to talk to Eric in dms without response and then he came to me to talk. Here are some photos from harth attatched. He also accused harth of bringing this upon himself when this was all caused by abuse, harm, and being groomed which is not optional by Harth.

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I'm unable to send the photos sadly

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Because it won't let me

neat moth
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Wow. That was dark. But im sorry for harth. If you can tell him I support him and he should not end his story. He was just honest and didnt try to guilt trip, he didnt do anything wrong but express himself

knotty mica
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That was from the perspective of my friend

neat moth
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Im dumb sorry

knotty mica
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Sorry for the confusion

neat moth
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I dont read usernames sometimes

knotty mica
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But yeah I'm really depressed right now, haven't been this depressed since I was abused a year ago

neat moth
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Abused?

knotty mica
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Yeah I was abused in school

neat moth
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Wow. If you dont want to talk about that its fine. But I hope you get better and have a great night im getting tired. Goodnight

knotty mica
hybrid silo
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@knotty mica hey so idk if this is still an issue but just in case: That really sucks and I'm sorry. I can imagine you might feel cast out and alienated and both of those are really unpleasant feelings. I hope you're able to reconcile with your community in the future

My advice for now: You're panicking and people don't make rational decisions when they're panicking. First and foremost, you gotta calm down. Did you drink enough? Go drink something, without caffeine unless you know for sure it helps you when panicking. Go eat something. Go outside and move, take a walk, run, go cycling, whatever you like. Turn your pc off, turn Discord off, put your phone away and do something irl that you enjoy. Go to sleep. Tomorrow, if you're feeling better, come back to this issue and calmly think about what happened and what you want to do. I know it feels terrible to not fix this immediately, but panicked decisions are almost always going to make things worse. If you and everybody else involved is calmer again, you'll be much better at solving this issue :)

knotty mica
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neat moth
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@knotty mica sorry if im bothering you, but are you unbanned from the weather server? I hope that you got unbanned

knotty mica
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I even lost my best friend because he believes ARHT

neat moth
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... I honestly feel bad for you.
That guy sounds like a jackass (sorry for my language) but HE LOST YOUR BEST FRIEND. THAT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE. No one should make someone lose their best friend. I know how that feels like, it made me feel suicidal but soon, I got over it. And I hope you can do the same man. Get better and try and forget about it

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And tell me the weather discord

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I wanna see if I can help

knotty mica
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I'm just nervous to take action or for anyone else to take action

neat moth
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Ill try and help