#How do I come out as trans to my parents?

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mystic tinsel
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Well i am closeted non binary and trans, I have told my mother that I am omnisexual but she says that I may be confused, and I understand her reaction because I am like 14 yr old so yeah.
But my whole life my family have been very stereotypical about me being biological a woman (i hope you understand what I mean), and that is because I am like the only girl in the whole family, all of my siblings and cousins are boys, and that's its what I believe made me mostly change and be transgender. But in other words, what I want to say is that as the only biological girl in my family it feels sad and limiting to me because I want to be a guy, I hate being a girl years now.
So I need suggestions and ideas in general on how to come out to my parents and family as a transgender so I don't make them feel bad.
(I hope everyone understand what I write because my first language is not English so yeah sorry if you didn't understand much :)) )

lavish crystal
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ur groomed

mystic tinsel
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Bro get out off here. You are not funny.

crystal forge
# mystic tinsel Well i am closeted non binary and trans, I have told my mother that I am omnisex...

Make art to come out, I know it's too original but I don't find anything better 🥲. So you can find a good music, record yourself singing a song about your gender identity+sexual attirance. By like explaining the context you just give us, U can do it in a very emotional or loving way, to be more appropriate for the coming situation. U can make them hearing it in the living room when u r in your bedroom. When you are come down, they will ask you about this (if they don't that mean the plan succed, they're accepting it), it will be the perfect moment to come out.

mystic tinsel
dense spindle
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try acting as a man

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start growing your voice infront of them start to make these hints shows infront of them till a point where they says you're not a man, that moment you will know that they noticed, once that happens start grown more of those feelings infront of them

as that they wont be supprised when you tell them that you wanna get to be a male, they gonna be like ohhhh like we didnt expect it!

mystic tinsel
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Thank you for the advice, and I actually do that as much as I can, like I wear more male clothes and act more as a man but my parents still say to me to wear something more feminine and we get to the point that every time we go shopping with my mother we argue about me wearing baggy clothes, my father is kind of okay with it, but my grandparents always want me to wear skirts or only feminine clothes so yes...I will try to do my best to make them understand it. Right now I have asked like 10 times my mother to cut my hear but she says that it won't fit me because I have curly hair. However thank you for advising me <33

dense spindle
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it still can fit it doesn't mean if your hair curly that you cant have a short hair, try pinterest look for your style on muscler side.... pinterest can benifit you in a great way

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