#I can't stand being at my gfs house anymore

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twilit cloak
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I love her sm and I'm not gonna stop going there to see her because I know she needs support from me due to her parents but I feel like almost sick whenever I'm at her house because of her parents. Ever since they found out she's trans(I've been openly trans since the start of our relationship I'm afab and she introduced and told them to call me by masc pronouns) and since they found out she identified as a girl in like June2025 they just got worse and more controlling to her. They're nice enough to my face, her mom at least, her dad tends to just ignore me which is fine, from what my gf said they blame me for her being trans and my influence and all and I just feel uncomfortable and sick at her house. Even when I'm not there it makes me feel sick bcs of them. She has a school project to do and had to skip a class to finish writing the report, and her homeroom teacher excused it and her mom got a notification or smtn that she was late to a class and screamed at her and now is gonna force her to study even more this weekend which means she might not be able to sleep over at my house which is her only escape from her parents. I'll go sleep over at least one night to comfort her and keep her company since her parents bother her a lot less when I'm around which is why after finding out she's trans they limited either of us sleeping over only 2 nights a week when before they let me sleep over whenever like weeks and shit, it was actually closer to my school from their house and yeah I'm just overwhelmed but I feel it's worse for her so I can't say anything to her about it.

This is just me getting this shit out because idk who I could tell it to atp

hollow tundra
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My mom says that she thinks my ex being trans is what turned me into a femboy. This isn’t true.

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What turned me into a femboy is me being gay, and just in general liking girl clothes. As well as a feeling.

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My advice is this;

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Tell your girlfriend to point out things that were feminine about her before she transitioned

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Over time they may subconsciously reflect and realize that it happened over time, not just because of your relationship

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I wish you two the best :3