Coming out to a guy i like | Pridecord | Page 1

livid hound Mar 3, 2026, 6:25 PM

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basically theres this friend of mine ive been getting closer to over the past year. im starting to realize i like him. i think he might like me too, but im not gonna delude myself either. he doesnt know im trans and my small circle who do know are telling me i should tell him soon. i think i should too, since i dont want to accidentally lead him on or anything, but i have no idea how i'll come out to him. (ive never really formally come out to anyone) im scared of losing our friendship entirely cause i care about him a lot. the last thing i wanna do is ruin what we have already.

also: i dont pass whatsoever

oak granite Mar 4, 2026, 12:16 AM

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First off hello and how long have you guys known eachother for and do you know or have any assumptions that he is transphobic or whatever

livid hound Mar 5, 2026, 1:47 PM

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oak granite First off hello and how long have you guys known eachother for and do you know o...

ive known him since august, we met through being at the same table at school. hes not transphobic and i tested it out by telling him my friend is trans and he was 100% ok with it and was even concerned for calling them the right pronouns

oak granite Mar 5, 2026, 1:48 PM

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Thats like best case scenario right there

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You could straight out to him and be like i'm trans and wait to see if he still might have feelings for you or admit you have feelings for him see where that goes and then come out to him about being trans

livid hound Mar 5, 2026, 2:01 PM

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i want him to confess to me first and then i come out to him cause lowkey im scared of making the first move

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its like not ideal but im just nervous

oak granite Mar 5, 2026, 3:07 PM

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He may or may not idk you could be waiting a long time but I hope it works out for you

#Coming out to a guy i like