#How to come out as a transfem

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hearty zephyr
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How to come out as transfem
Lately i have been thinking about being trans mtf, a few years ago i had a phase and i didnt tell anyone, but my past has come back to haunt me and i have been getting these feelings again but i dont how to come because the kids at my school are really judgemental. Some of my friends have openly said they are a bit transphobic and so is my grandma.

I NEED ADVICE PLSS
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balmy flint
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If they are OPENLY judgemental and radically opposes about being trans, it’s recommended you shouldn’t.

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I can only tell you, it’s too risky. Perhaps try to find a coping mechanism?

dark kindle
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There's little things you can do to hint at it, but if you aren't okay it's like getting openly judged or gawked. At then, I would recommend you just didn't cause like last time. I came out to a school everyone knew by the next day, and everyone was judging me, but I wore that like a Crown. I don't think anyone.There really likes me, but also I don't think they liked that I was confident

hearty zephyr
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Do u have any tips to act/look a bit more feminine?

dark kindle
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Well, it depends what kind of feminine you would like to act like, but like if you want to look or act more girly maybe let your hair grow into like a Bob or pixie, cut cause that usually helps and then if you have a jacket or a sweater, you can tie that around your waist and kind of bend your knees a little bit more in than out. And sit with your legs together as much as you can. And maybe like you can start working on your hair a little bit longer, and making it look a little bit more umf or like, if you manage to get it like get a little thing of mascara, and make your eyelashes longer, that's usually more feminine, and probably show teeth more often

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I will keep responding if you need more tips.But so far, that's what I got

dark kindle
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Oh, and you can also like wear clothing that it makes you look how you like i know there's a cool shop in Toronto. Canada, if that does stuff like that, maybe you can check them out. But like, if you can't, then just you can buy like stuff that makes you look more curvy