How do I come out as pan and kinda wanting to be a femboy to my parents and homophobic brother

[misty frigate]

The only people that know im pan/gay is my boyfriend and our best friend

[chilly sparrow]

If your parents are also homophobic then don't unless you have a death wish. Wait until you are able to provide for yourself/live without your parents.

If not then come out when you feel comfortable and hopefully your parents will deal with your brother or you can brutally slaughter him

[vivid elk]

Interesting solution……

[hushed cloak]

XD