#How do I come out at 22 years old?

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grand atlas
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I’ve finally decided the label that fits me best is homoflexible (thank you all for helping me with this!) Since I’m currently with my fiance (a man) and he is the only man I find attractive and truly ever found attractive in a romantic manner, how do I explain that I like women but he is the only exception to our families?

spare scarab
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Well if you’re in a happy position is explaining your sexuality really necessary. Does your family need to know the specifics of who you’re attracted to when you have a fiancé? If I was you I would just keep living my life

hidden garnet
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^^ Exactly what I'm thinking. People make coming out such a big deal, but it honestly does more harm than good in some cases. I think the only reason why someone would come out is if they were planning on dating someone of the same gender which doesn't seem to be your case?

Honestly you keeping your family out of sexual preferences is the best thing to do. It's always an awkward conversation, and they'd probably find it more confusing than inspiring. You know what I mean?

grand atlas