So i didn’t know where to put this one as it’s not about actively doing the SH thing but it does involve it. So tomorrow, 19th of February I’ll be 3 weeks clean and I’ve had barely any urges either and I’ve been doing pretty well but i haven’t heard from my long distance bf for 2 days now and I’m starting to feel like it’s my fault. The last thing I said to him was a good night and a I Love You message as one does. But now he hasn’t even been online since then. The last thing I heard from him was today but that was his pikmin account asking for help on a mushroom battle. I’m just starting to think it’s my fault.
#I need advice and help
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What makes you think it’s your fault
he could just be like me and take dats to respond
i highly you actually did anything
doubt*
I don’t know I sent him a risky message and he hasn’t responded. We haven’t had any problems before but that can change.
He doesn’t usually
i would say try messaging something normal and see if he responds to you
he could also just not be responding for a couple of reasons and could just be taking a break
it does just sound like he is taking a break or maybe he lost access to the account or something
I have. I the day after I said good morning and asked what he was doing today. But nothing. I can see that his insta account was active about an hour ago and one of his friends told me that he was snapping them earlier so i know that he’s alive i just haven’t personally heard anything from him.
oh
maybe have the friend ask them
Yeah I’m trying to give him space now. I just worry about him because he is truly the love of my life and I can’t imagine being without him.
Maybe
just tell the friend to say you are concerned and just for confirmation nothing is wrong
i am not the best for this since the closest thing to a real relationship i have had was a lot of sexual tension between me and two of my friends
Yeah okay I’ll try to do that. But I’ll do it in the morning since it’s almost 11 pm for me and him (he lives like two hours away from me) but I’m gonna try and get some sleep now.
Oop… dam I had that before I met my bf that was weird.
