had a bad nightmare

[inland ridge]

i just need to get this off my chest or it’ll torment me.
last night i had a dream that i came out to my (transphobic) parents as genderfluid. i don’t exactly remember how, all i remember is i didn’t say it directly to them, i just left an obvious hint to them. my parents weren’t happy. my dad was angry and my mom was disappointed, trying to pretend it wasn’t true. my dad would be upset and avoid talking to me, and my mom would treat me as if i was an animal or something. it felt so bad. when i woke up, i genuinely felt so scared. i haven’t felt that scared in a while. and thanks to this, im lowkey even more afraid to come out to them :p

[frigid crow]

it's okay to feel like that, I understand, but what u saw in the dream doesn't decide your fate, u saw the dream, but that doesn't mean it MUST or WILL come true, that's what's fearing u, I can't make this fear go away from u but I can reassure that dreams don't always come true, the fear of "what if they come true" is gonna remind u of them again and again and build up more fear but that doesn't decide how your actual like will go, dreams love to take our biggest fears and turn them into movies

u don't have to rush to come out before you're ready to validate them

dreams ≠ reality

I'm here for u if u wanna vent, DMS open

[inland ridge]

yeah tysm, i probably wont come out soon but maybe when i’m an adult i will. thank you for your words!