#Trust

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bleak scaffold
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Sorry if I might be overthinking or something.

So I broke up with my gf a while ago and I'm still attached to her were friends but I can't shake something like she's trying to get rid of me I've been thinking like what if she back talks me with her friends and i am friends with her friends but it's just like I know them not best friends and people that I have trusted before have broken that in some way and I have like no one to trust or talk to or anything and if my ex and I were to not be friends I bet 1000 bucks that I'd loose all of my friends due to them being friends with her more than me and they were friends with me before her it's just shit I don't like life.

versed laurel
bleak scaffold
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Yea I would say so

coral shuttle
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My best advice is this;

As hard as it may sound, moving on and finding new friends is probably the best course of action. I can give you a few steps on how to do this:

  1. You can try talking to new people at school or sitting with people who aren’t friends with your ex. If your “friends” are closer to your ex than you than they aren’t really friends yk?

  2. You can also try to stop texting or talking to the friends you usually talk to and see how they react. If they don’t initiate anything then they most likely don’t see you as close of a friend

  3. Remaining attached to a relationship that has already ended is worse for your mental health as well as your future relationships. I suggest trying to focus your mind and energy on other things (hobbies, working out, improving yourself, studying etc) over your ex. Chances are, she’s probably moved on and doesn’t want to deal with getting back together

TLDR focus on yourself and moving on to other people rather than worrying about the dilemma with your ex and your “friends”.

Hope this helps! ❤️