#I just found out I’m not Demigirl and I’m Undifferentiated-Androgynous.

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cyan osprey
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Idk what to do because I took a gender test and it told me that my levels of both fem and masc were both average,meaning I’m Undifferentiated-Androgynous and idk how to tell my parents even though they accept me anyway

steady sorrel
# cyan osprey Idk what to do because I took a gender test and it told me that my levels of bot...

I don't really know what undifferentiated androgynous really is so if you feel comfortable telling me more about it that would be nice :]
anyway do you actually think you're undifferentiated androgynous? because a lot of like quizzes and tests aren't really good for that type of thing. you're the only one that actually knows your gender (or lack of gender :p). if you do think that, and identify with it comfortably, then that's completely ok but just asking. anyway if your parents already accepted you for coming out as a demigirl there's nothing to worry about!! you could even text them so you don't have to be in the room with them and actually say it because I know it can be uncomfortable for some people, write down what you're going to say, or write it down and just pass it to them on like a note or something so you also don't have to say it :] I wish you luck on it though!!!

cyan osprey
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I took a legit test on my gender identity and it said I was both masc and fem

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Undifferentiated androgynous (or simply "undifferentiated" in Sandra Bem's gender-role theory) describes individuals who score low on both traditionally masculine and traditionally feminine personality trait scales. They are often characterized as lacking distinct, conventional gender-typed characteristics, which can result in behaviors that are not easily categorized as masculine or feminine.

steady sorrel
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can you tell me what test? still if it is "legit" a test still isn't great, as I said, you're the only one that can know. /lh

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everyone's experience with gender is different

cyan osprey
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I gotta check

steady sorrel
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(also gender expression is very different from gender. like, you could definitely say I'm more fem than masc, but I'm also still a guy. androgynous is like a type of gender expression, androgyne is a gender label. like I also dress androgynous sometimes but I'm still a guy)