For context, I’m aro and there’s this guy that’s liked me for a while who confessed to me recently. It’s not that I don’t like him, I just don’t quite understand romantic attraction. I said yes but I’m scared of hurting his feelings if I turn out not to like him romantically. What do I do?
#I’m regretting accepting his feelings..
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well, do you still want a relationship anyway? Or does the idea just not interest you?
and when you say "if I turn out not to like him romantically" do you think you might feel that way?
because if it is something you sincerely want to try then I would be straight up, 'hey im aromantic and dont really get romantic attraction, this is still something i want to try however but I want to be transparent of how I feel and how it might end up'
or something like that
if its not something you are even interested in you just dont want to hurt his feelings, also be straight up and break up asap
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So I told him and he says he’s still content with it, I guess it was a good decision after all