How can i come out that i'm nonbinary to my politics forced dad?

[fiery mango]

Basically my dad just talks about Trump (and how my dad likes trump and Elon musk so much), it's a tough situation for me sadly xD, but any tips or any situations that sound like me so i don't think i'm the only one :) apricated thxx :3, and also my dad is one of those "Ai" fans so i'm prettee screwed but thanks :*

[frosty field]

If you're in a position where u depend on him financially, emotionally or as such, it'll be better for u to not tell him until you don't depend on him.

It's hard but when we are in a position where it's dangerous to come out it's better to wait until it's safe to do so, or when you know he will accept you.

[fiery mango]

You sure? Btw thanks.

[frosty field]

I mean if you know that he won't do anything that puts you at risk, you may tell him, but idk, it seems difficult if he's a trump supporter

[fiery mango]

Ah that does make me think, by the way how did you come out? So i know kind of, and sometimes Trump supporters are i guess a bit tough to talk to but that's me i guess

[frosty field]

I'm not from the United States of America, so politics aren't quite as strong over here, but my mom would still be someone considered a bit conservative.

It's a looong story, but imma summarize it.

I came out when I was like 13, my mom was confused and ignored it like if she turned away, It would dissapear, of course it didn't.

I kept on insisting, I knew my mom perhaps would overcome her fear and ignorance about trans/gay people, and in a way, she has. It's still not perfect, but now as a 18 years old dude, my mother has learnt a lot for her child.

I can't say for sure if your dad would, and it's a scary thought that he wouldn't, but I hope that for the love he has for you he can learn and grow as my mom did. My advice would be read the room- if you know it's not safe to come out, it's best to not until it is. You can't risk getting yelled at, bullied, disowned or even getting thrown out of your home.

If it is safe, do it when you're ready.

Some parents change for their children, some not, but I really hope your dad is one of the people who change.

[fiery mango]

Might read the room actually, thanks i do check sometimes but i think my dad won't really get what nonbinary is, but my dad also has a gay brother so i might feel like he'd understand.

sorry if i don't really right that much, i do read eerything though :)