Im a cis gay guy, and i find trans guys attractive in the same way as cis guys even pre transition
#Crushing/looking for feedback
pastel cave
It differs from person to person ofc
But im sure there are many like me
I wouldn't completely assume its hopeless
If waiting to come out feels right then go for that but if you only want to wait because you're worried how you will be perceived then maybe consider coming out sooner
Why not come out to him?
pastel cave
Why not come out to your other friends?
worthy agate
Yeah dude I don’t know your friends but I would have no problem with one of my friends being trans
pastel cave
thats fair enough
do it whenever you are ready
i would say however that the things you regret most in life are chances not taken and putting things off
and its not a binary come out to everyone or stay closeted either, you could always just come out to a few friends at a time
i do get waiting until youre on t though, im sure socially transitioning is a lot easier if you are getting the physical changes to go along with it
but how long would it be until you get it? and then how long would it take after that for changes to really start showing?
do you want to wait that long until you start trying to live like how you want to, and to be perceived how you want to, by your crush or anyone else?
there isnt one right answer here, if you think its better to wait then go for it
but generally speaking I always lean towards doing things sooner rather than later
especially if its getting in the way of your life like with the crush
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