#What's my boyfriend's sexuality?

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burnt jacinth
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Alr so here's the situation:
When I First met my bf, I hadn't figured out yet as a transmasc, so I started to date as a woman
After over 2 years dating , I came out as non binary/transmasc and he's still attracted to me BUT he doesn't enjoy men at all
Is he still straight or is there a specific sexuality label for this? He's attracted to girls and enby people,but doesn't feel anything about men In general

deft wave
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Unfortunately people feel attracted to Trans people as if they are their birth gender all the time if they are pre transition. It doesn't mean they don't respect your identity to feel thst kind of attraction its just something people's brains do but it is a thing. Ask him if he feels the same after picturing you as a guy post transition. If he doesn't like it then he might just be straight and you two aren't gonna be compatible

burnt jacinth
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I'd like to be more androgynous pal

deft wave
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Still though, its something to talk to him about

knotty charm