Would someone mind testing both feminine and neutral terminology on me? I already figured out my pronouns, I mean words like girl, person, lady, etc.
I don’t know if I prefer people using feminine or neutral terminology more. I typically refer to myself as child/person rather than daughter/girl and that feels more natural. But my best friend calls me wife (we’re jokingly fake married) and i’d rather him call me wife than spouse. I think I’m kinda leaning more towards being ok with people I know well calling me fem and neutral terms and people I don’t know calling me just neutral terms, but I want to test that out and see how being called both fem and neutral terms from someone I don’t know feels.
#Testing Terminology
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So u feel inclined towards the idea of being refered to as she/them, almost sounds like a demigirl i rec doing research, and maybe using new public online spaces or using new accs that are a they them only acc
lyr is supposedly officially a crazy cat person
does that mean that they're a person who likes cats (like the cat lady stereotype), or a catlike person (like a catgirl)
or is she a catgirl
that would put her among "cute women"
and her best friend calls her their "wife" which does imply being a woman, but of course doesn't have to, could just be a preferred term
hope this helps
how do you feel about the various terms
i have this friend, their name is lyr. i loved hanging out with them this past weekend, she's so sweet! we also played minecraft together, she's so good at it, they kinda carried me the whole way through bc I kept dying.. i hope i can have you meet them at some point, i bet you would and her would make great friends.
i already know my gender identity and pronouns. i’m just trying to figure out if i’m comfortable with strangers calling me a « girl » or other fem words
cat lady stereotype. it does help, ty
ty!!
Maybe you should try going into a online or irl public space with she her pronouns and see if you like it, I mean based off what other people have alr said does it seem fine for ppl to call you she her
she/her pronouns are fine for me, i already know that