coming out

[astral hull]

I've been struggling with how to tell people I'm Bi, because I don't want people to see me in a different way because I'm still me. It's just scary, because I don't know how and what to do. Does anybody have an idea on how to say this?

[small needle]

@astral hull Hello!! I am pansexual, I have many friends who’ve I’ve told! However I have many friends who don’t see me the same way anymore. I totally understand, coming out is very scary. If you feel pressured in anyway to come out, dont! Wait until you’re ready! I think if people leave your life or see you differently because of that, they weren’t the right people! This is perfectly fine because there are people out there who love you for you and not your sexuality or beliefs etc.. For myself coming out, I felt forced and regretted coming out since I wasn’t ready. The times I were ready is when I’m in a comfortable place with comfortable people, I’ve told people solo and in groups. I have said “I have something to tell you. This is something very important to myself, I believe I’m finally ready to tell you. This takes a lot of courage for me to say, so just know this is important. I am (sexuality/gender).” now of course I believe you should not quote what I say! You can build off of it and make it feel more comfortable for yourself to say! I hope this helps☺️

[heady reef]

Heyyy don't worry I'm also bi and no other friends know that I'm bi and gay Only a few of them know

[astral hull]

ok

[astral hull]

Yo, i did it. I came out to three of my friends

[turbid elbow]

Congrats!!!