How do I tell my boyfriend that I am non binary which I assume might be alright, but on the transmasc side of it? Like alright my mom would be alr if I was lesbian, but abt trans, not sure tbh. My brother idk either. But my boyfriend is hetero. We’ve been together for a few months now(im 15, hes 17, turning 18 in april). But there is a bit of a gap bethween us cuz he might be more mature than me.
#How do I do it?
formal dirge
pale dust
You love him right, and he loves you too? You can be honest with him. Confront him, there is a right time to tell the truth. Don't wait any longer, it will hurt your partner more than letting others know who you really are.
formal dirge
You love him right, and he loves you too? You can be honest with him. Confront ...
Yeah. You are right
formal dirge
Damn. This is gonna be hard to explain for him
pale dust
Damn. This is gonna be hard to explain for him
Yes it's hard. But for your good and for his good you can do it.
formal dirge
Yes it's hard. But for your good and for his good you can do it.
He doesnt know these stuff
Like he didnt know what a non binary or a pansexual is
pale dust
Like he didnt know what a non binary or a pansexual is
Awww, so sad for him
formal dirge
Awww, so sad for him
Hasnt told him yet
Im tryna to decide how to even axplain him
Like he has attempted ||su!c!de|| before we even met and broke up with his last gf
pale dust
He doesnt know these stuff
Because of he is straight guy, i think if ever he knows these kind of stuff, he mad at you I think
pale dust
Im tryna to decide how to even axplain him
Until now you can't even told him?
formal dirge
Because of he is straight guy, i think if ever he knows these kind of stuff, he ...
Maybe.
formal dirge
Until now you can't even told him?
He only knows of me being a pansexual
But not abt me being non binary or trans masc
Like I still look like a girl, still am legally(still not able to change it)
pale dust
Hasnt told him yet
I know it's hard for you to tell him because you're afraid of what he might do, like you said to his ex-girlfriend, that he can't handle leaving you anymore.
pale dust
Like I still look like a girl, still am legally(still not able to change it)
Awww, okay
formal dirge
I know it's hard for you to tell him because you're afraid of what he might do, ...
Yeah exactly
And I dont wanna be the reason for that
pale dust
But not abt me being non binary or trans masc
Nothing important to know about others stuff like these, he wants is to be honest with him
pale dust
And I dont wanna be the reason for that
I know, is not bad to be being honest with atleast. You confront him as much as you can.
formal dirge
Nothing important to know about others stuff like these, he wants is to be hones...
Yeah ur right. But im only doing next week cuz he fell of his motor bike on sunday
But no more excuses
pale dust
Yeah ur right. But im only doing next week cuz he fell of his motor bike on sund...
Okay, just calm down and be prepared yourself