I'm a demigirl, but no ones ever really called me "them" before, which I've been okay with, but today someone did, and it felt like it made so much more sense than being labeled as a girl.
But at the same time, I'm still fine with being a girl! I don't mind my body or anything and I don't mind acting more feminine.. 
#Aaaaaaa I'm confused
stoic vapor
tawdry gull
I might have some advice for you:
-Okay so there’s this button that will make you nonbinary. You can dress as masculine or as feminine as you want. Would you press it?
-Now, gender does not have to be about dysphoria, it’s also about euphoria. Imagine living a life where you are so androgynous that people get confused whether you’re a guy or a gal. Does it put a huge smile on your face?
I dunno if it helps