Help.

[thorn furnace]

Idk what to do. Me and my gf broke up recently and she's taken all my friends with her. She hates me now and made everyone block me. I don't know why she has to hate me. We tried to be friends but bc I accidentally said smthn mean to my friend so she hates me now. I did bad things but I dont understand bc our ex who she's friends with now did wayyy worse things including lying abt SA. She forgave her but not me. Is what I did that bad and I dont understand how bad it really is? Where do I go from here? PLEASE HELP-

[dire sail]

OMG! iv been in a similar situation with my ex gf, honestly I cant give much advice but have you tried talking to some of ur other friends or giving subtle notes about it on social media?

[thorn furnace]

1. I dont use other social medias
2. My. friends. Blocked. Me.
   (i think, ik my ex and my other ex did)

[dire sail]

Thats unfair and they always treat you of the scum of the earth just because you're an ex of someone. That's terrible im so freaking sorry. Have you tried to reach out through like mutuals? Like people who know about the situation but arnt involved?

[thorn furnace]

idk, im nowhere near perfect but I dont understand bc she forgave our ex who did things such as lie abt SA and refuses to forgive me

And like the worst thing i've done is try to reach out to my ex (uuhhhhh this is getting confusing) on an alt acc

Like is what i did that bad? idek anymore.

[dire sail]

Thats bad but not as bad as LYING ABOUT SA, her priorities seem really messed up if she cant forgive you but can forgive your other ex. If she cant accept you thats fine but she didnt have to take your friends from you

[thorn furnace]

I js dont know where to go from here.

[dire sail]

i completely understand i was in the same situation my friends were take from me, but you really do realize who is your friends and who isnt. I recommend honestly finding friends on here

[thorn furnace]

its hard

[dire sail]

Ya especially since most people on here can be hard yo freind but starting fresh might be what you need

those people werent your friends at all

[thorn furnace]

i didnt even meet them via the server tho

[dire sail]

and didnt deserve you

[thorn furnace]

i met them bc my gf was advertising for a fan project for a video game i loved

[dire sail]

Is there a server for the video game you love? Maybe you could start there!!! Im sorry i suck at suggestions :(((

[thorn furnace]

yes, but i dont think i'll be able to find one

Im pretty sure its against the rules in a lot of servers

[dire sail]

god ur gf really have ur old friends tied around her fingers

[dire sail]

oh really? whats the video game?

[thorn furnace]

its a game called dandys world

its a game on roblox

[dire sail]

Oh i know that game! Im pretty sure theres a lot of servers if you look of disboard.

[thorn furnace]

every server i've joined that kind of advertising is against the rules...

the server that i met my ex in?

i think its gone-

[dire sail]

Oh thats insane im so sorry! Is there any other special interests your really into? I mean you could advertise on here because their is a self promo channel

[thorn furnace]

hmmmm

well im rlly into theatre
voice acting
and writing...
yk, I've wanted to make a series abt this one project im working on, but idk how to run it if that makes sense?
My ex knew all that stuff, and well...