#Coming out to friends

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limber vector
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So about two years ago I came out as bi to my close friends, but they still use "gay" as an insult. I'm still not sure what to think, because I know they don't mean to offend me, and plus I really have fun with them. But, some stil don't seem like they respect my choices as much. Any suggestions as to what I do? Because nothing really changed after I came out, but I wanna stay friends. Do I say something or not?

long elbow
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I’d tell them and say “hey could you guys say something different it makes me feel a little weird when you say that”
If they are really your friends they’ll stop or try to stop. 🫶🫶🫶 I hope this helps

grave musk
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Well it depends on how your friends feel mostly, but if you feel overwhelmed then have a friendly talk to them and tell them how you actually feel when they call u any names or not, I also came out to friends few days ago and explained it to them, trust me true friends understand. And I wish u luck