Coming out to family/asking out crush

[opaque tinsel]

I don’t really know what sexuality I am but it’s just confusing. It’s either pansexual, Omni or lesbian and it’s just so confusing.

I see myself going out with trans people and non binary people but it’s mainly girls I like and when I see myself with men I just don’t like see it happening. And I don’t really have a preference but it’s mainly girls I see myself getting with.

I wanna come out but last time I did my mum said it was a phase and that I don’t know what i am saying and I’m scared she will say it again or say that I saw it on tik tok or smth.
My dad keep asking if I have a boyfriend or a girlfriend and idk what to say about that even tho I don’t have one and whenever we meet up he always asks.

I also need some help, I really like this girl and we’re really close friends, I’ve liked her for over 2 years nearly 3 years now and all my friends know I like her a lot and they keep encouraging me to ask her out. However I asked her out before (when i started to like her) and she said no and im scared if I ask her now that it would ruin our friendship that we have as we have been close friends since yr 7 and we’re in yr 11 now. Idk if i should ask her out or not but it is just dreading me that I can’t shake off the feelings.

Can u please also help me know what sexuality I am. I don’t know what one I am..

[versed prism]

I was struggling with my sexuality for the longest too but, here's what helped me figure out if I'm a lesbian or not. Which turns out I'm not but, for you it could be different. If you can picture yourself kissing a man or whatever then yeah maybe your not lesbian and you could have just a preference for women like me. What really helped me out was watching videos online of how people figure out if they are a lesbian or not. If you feel like you might relate and you feel like "no I'll never kiss a man or just gross" then you might be a lesbian. As for pansexual or omnisexual. Some people get those two confused pansexual is where you are not in love with the persons gender and you are genderblind (meaning you love all genders equally). Omnisexual is all genders but you lean towards one or other specific genders more and your not genderblind.

I'm sorry if I'm not really giving the best advice but I hope it at least helped in some way!