Help

[sweet lava]

I need help figuring out if I'm omni or gay bro im so confused

[onyx crane]

If you like girls, transgenders, non binaries agenders and stuff yes

[visual timber]

Could you elaborate? What are your attractions?

[sweet lava]

Ive only dated men my whole life and Im
not sure if I ever liked anything else

[visual timber]

What are you comfortable labeling yourself as?

[sweet lava]

I dont know that either

[sweet lava]

Wouldnt it be kinda stupid of gay men not liking trans men though ? Wouldn't that be a way of not seeing trans men as men?

[visual timber]

Don't feel rushed to find that perfect label that fits you, individual experiences can make it difficult to stick to one term or label and feel comfortable doing so and that isnt your fault if thats the case for you.

[visual timber]

Depends on why they don't choose to date that trans man, but it gets touchy since even with physical preferences, operations exist and such. If there were a preference for physicality then a more inclusive way to say that would be that you prefer post-operation trans men.

[sweet lava]

Yeah that makes sense I think

But what if its a trans man after transitioning?

Then whats the excuse?

[visual timber]

Preferences are fine to have, and no one can force you to date one way or the other, but its also important to understand where your preferences come from and their potentiality to be rooted in transphobia.

[visual timber]

There necessarily wouldn't be one, since post-operation trans men would be almost identical to most cisgendered men — are you talking about your own attraction towards trans men or others attraction toward you?

[sweet lava]

Other

[visual timber]

The former ( your own attraction towards trans men ) or the latter ( others attraction towards you while being a transgender man )?

[sweet lava]

Others attraction

[visual timber]

Ahhh i see, but im unsure in how that relates to your own sexuality.

[sweet lava]

It doesnt....I'm just curious

[sweet lava]

I think it feels wrong to call myself omni tho

[visual timber]

Why?