coming out to friends

[finite umbra]

i wanna come out as nonbinary to this friend i really trust, she's the first friend i made here and ik she's kinda accepting but idk if she's gonna understand:( and also we aren't in the same school anymore so we don't see each other that often...

idk what to do, i forgot how to come out to people lmao

also she's the only friend i have rn so i'm more scared of coming out

[void osprey]

Well if I were you i think I would try and turn the subject to if she supports the community. And if she does there's 99% that she will accept you too.
Now if she doesn't then I guess wait and don't come out to her, also a friend has to accept you for what you are and not what you show, if she doesn't accept you then she is not your actual friend.
But if you do tell her try to explain to her and make her understand that you are the same person as before but with different pronouns and identity but you will still have the same personality as before...
Last but not least, I don't know what you should do if she doesn't get it, i can only wish you good luck and hope for the best
I am sure everything will go fine :))

[finite umbra]

thanks bro

i will give it a try

[finite umbra]

i did give it a try

[finite umbra]

i came out to her by text message

and it did go well!!!

she doesn't really understand what it is but she's willing to support

I don't like coming out in person cuz i get super anxious lmao

[void osprey]

That's great news :DD

[void osprey]

I am saying my sexuality almost to everyone i meet, expect of adults lol

[finite umbra]

damn 😭😭

i aspire to have this level of confidence