#need advice plz

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wraith canyon
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I go to my partners house every week and when I do my siblings ransack my room for stuff and due to my autism I have anxiety over stuff being out of place and now I'm having a panic attack cuz my room is trashed cuz of my sister she knows I get panic attacks over that and she still does this to me and now I'm scared and allowed and no one in my family will take me seriously about this I just need someone to talk to about this if anyone can it would be nice (I rather talk to people 18+ since I'm over 18)

hearty cedar
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Im not 18+ but I would say just get a lock of some sort, your 18+ and you have a right to privacy.

worn totem
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My best advice for you is to make sure you try to have a safe and respectful conversation with them. Another tip is to start with talking to someone you trust then asking them to talk with the person. I have family members like that and what I do is usually find something stress relieving and then clean your room. If your family won’t listen to you then you should really have a talk with them in a respectful manner. Do it In a time that everyone is in a good mood. Your family is somewhere that you should be safe. If that can’t happen, I recommend trying to move out. Talking to trustworthy friends are going to be your best bet also.
(I put this at the end of every reply btw idk why but)
You are not alone.
National suicide and Crisis lifeline text 988 or call 988
(This is written by my friend who is a therapist btw)

ornate mist
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otherwise if worse comes to worse and it doesn't work talk to ur partner about it, maybe they can hold/store some stuff for you so ur family doesn't get to it. I am quite protective of my stuff and even collect stuff others call trash (like cardbords/bones/dead animals) that my mom loves to get rid of, im 18 btw, otherwise lock ur door? if u can, it might also show how serious u are, trashing someones room is an extreme

wraith canyon
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