#need help

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surreal mango
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two of my friends are having suicidal thoughts, one keeps attempting, and the other does sh, lets name the one with the thoughts S and the other M, so S, we talk a lot, j like to comfort her, and she comforts me sometimes. but she has been getting SA’d by her cousins and her mom is emotionally immature.

M on the other hand has borderline personality disorder, which i dont know a lot about, but i try to comfort her, and she just doesnt respond, she’s been really distant on text lately, and reposting thing saying “and for my last act of love ill distance myself so it will hurt less when i do it”

i seriously cant bear to lose even just one of these friends, i already have a lot of probelm, and if they commit, im just gonna join them. im scared to lose them

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and also two nights ago i ahd a dream about cvtting myself, and it felt weid, but peaceful

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tawny rampart
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a few things: firstly, when this is all happening, make sure you are still looking after yourself, secondly: one of the best peices of advice that i can give is to just keep talking to them , it dosent matter what it is ur talking to them abt , just having someone to talk to can help so much, thirdly; if you know them irl, esp. if M gets worse, it might be an idea to tell someone, going off some reserch i just did, they should be in DBT therapy, which apparntly helps BPD , and i know it feels like ur breaking their trust, but sometimes it helps to have somone who is better trained, (ik i cant talk but yeah...) finally, if u need help, reach out, dm me, ask on here, if ur uk based, talk to papyrus or childline, they might be able to help, and i dont know the us places, but try and talk to one of them, as they will have more stuff to help u then a teenager who isnt trained. @surreal mango

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remember im here if u need anything

surreal mango
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ill make sure to do this

tawny rampart
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Your very welome

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is there anything else i can do?

surreal mango
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sorry, have notifs turned off

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if i can, i can DM you for anything else, thank you man