So I've recently come out to my mom as genderfluid. She asked me what my pronouns are, but I have no clue what they should be. Like sometimes I hate my name and really want to be called Oliver or Jamie, and sometimes I'd rather have male pronouns than female ones. I need advice.
#I REALLY REALLY NEED HELP
edgy kernel
vocal rampart
If you’re unsure the best thing to do is try. Start with male if that’s what you want to. Pronouns are not forever. If you realize you prefer he/they they/them or whatever then you can always change. Just try it out and see what you feel comfortable with.
edgy kernel
I know, but my mom already doesn't fully support me (Strict Christian). I want to be sure about it before I tell her.
vocal rampart
Ohh have you considered trying first with your friends or anyone who is supportive?
edgy kernel
Not really lol😅
vocal rampart
If you want you can do that first so you feel more comfortable
edgy kernel
I'm going to ask my best friend on Wednesday, thanks for your help