medical stuff vent

[dry herald]

Please don’t judge me so around 11 years ago I had an accident that resulted in life-changing injuries. I fell 8 foot off of a roof landed straight on my back and had the type of injury where they couldn’t fix it and there is a pretty good chance that I will end up in a wheelchair later in life but recently I’ve noticed I’ve been having bladder issues and the doctor did tests and it turns out it’s related to my back injury and there’s nothing they can do ((|| and I’m gonna have to wear diapers ||))

[charred temple]

Hey it's ok no one's going to judge you

but if someone does judge you just just give them the bird (aka this🖕🏻) and Bluntly ask them it was happening to me affecting you

[dry herald]

if only I would’ve waited for someone to help me that day, none of this shit would’ve happened

[charred temple]

Like one of my old school teachers told me You can't change the past but you can look forward to the future

Ok yes you might need to find different ways around the injuries but you still have the people you love and you get to spend time with them and hey if it gets too much you've got me and everyone else to talk to ok

[opal urchin]

Hi girl! I also have a chronic illness and bladder issues so I’ve already been there and I know the feeling of the shame and the awfulness, I would advise you to probably go see another doctor and get a second opinion, or see a specialist and see if they can help you. How are you feeling about it right now? Im very proud of you for posting this and telling us, I hope you are doing okay. Stay strong.

[charred temple]

And im proud of both of you

[dry herald]

im ok

[dry herald]

mine is from falling off of a ladder and significantly damaging my spine. I spent like three months in the hospital and then another two in physical therapy. I should not be walking. Yes, I still have some days where I can’t walk, but I guess it’s better then not being able to at all. but because of my spine injury, I’m having bladder issues. It’s just embarrassing.

and unfortunately, because of that spine injury, I might not be able to walk in my later years of life, but my girlfriend said she was staying no matter what

so fucking stupid I disabled myself because I didn’t wanna wait for someone to help me with the ladder

[charred temple]

In the most kindest way shut up and stop putting yourself down

WHY BECAUSE IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT IT COULD HAVE HAPPENED TO ANYONE IT'S A SIMPLE MISTAKE AND YOUR STRONGER THAN U THINK I BELIEVE IN YOUUU (P.S sorry if it sounded rude i just don't like people being sad and putting themselves down)

[dry herald]

I know just my brain is telling me that it’s my fault. It could’ve been avoided.